Examples (and this list is by no means exhaustive):
- Porn. Sexual abuse. Assault. Harassment. (And this doesn't even include how it so often goes ignored.)
- "Go away." "Nobody wants you around." "I don't have time for you." "Later." "Stop complaining." "You're stupid." "You're a baby."
- Expectations of perfectionism in athletics and performing arts and as a child or student (and threats/abuse when those expectations are not met).
- Emotional abuse.
- Being ignored.
- Choosing TV or film over spending time with a friend who's going through a rough time.
- "So what? Get over it."
- "I was only joking."
- "You're not good enough." (Christian church of North America, check yourself on this one.)
- Staring at a screen, scrolling through Facebook rather than spending time with a precious life.
- Abortion.
- Assisted suicide.
- Driving like a maniac, endangering the lives of those with and around you.
- Drinking and driving.
- Dealing drugs.
- Tormenting anybody, any age (physically or emotionally).
- "It's all in your head. You're fine."
- Pretending you don't see the tears. Or the scars. (Or even the people.)
- Plopping your kids in front of an iPad/TV or locking them outside because you're 'done' with them.
- Having seven babysitters for your two kids because you 'can't handle them.' Ever. Apparently.
- Ageism.
- Racism.
- Online name-calling.
- Lack of forgiveness.
You should not have to tell us you're a loving caring person. Your love and concern for other people should be borne out by your actions.
- Ageism.
- Racism.
- Online name-calling.
- Lack of forgiveness.
You should not have to tell us you're a loving caring person. Your love and concern for other people should be borne out by your actions.
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