tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1017720918516507228.post1688191926600744137..comments2023-09-13T13:22:32.245-06:00Comments on The Edge Of The Dream: Justice, Sweet JusticeSarah-Katehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06307823094722155807noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1017720918516507228.post-10426950736030325742011-06-19T22:07:07.567-06:002011-06-19T22:07:07.567-06:00I'm not sure that it's really a fair assum...I'm not sure that it's really a fair assumption that paintballing is "more important" then spending time with you, though. They just had to choose between two activities. It was probably nothing personal. <br /><br />And, really, just because they COULD have come doesn't mean they SHOULD. I mean, paintballing is a pretty rigorous activity. Would you rather have a few people who are excited to be there and are ready to have fun at your party, or a bunch of exhausted people who don't want to be there but are afraid you'd be mad at them for saying no? I mean, it's your call, I guess, but I kind of think the second would bring down the mood...Brittneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12840150141635229941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1017720918516507228.post-36500312652651048482011-06-19T20:49:24.272-06:002011-06-19T20:49:24.272-06:00I know; that's what I keep telling myself, but...I know; that's what I keep telling myself, but it still hurts because they totally could have come for at least part of it. If the roles were reversed I would have come to their party even if paintball was a tradition for me and I would have had to be a little late (or I may very well have given up the paintball altogether).<br />I guess I'm one of those dinosaurs who still thinks people are more important than spending five hours of my life running around shooting chunks of paint at strangers.Sarah-Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06307823094722155807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1017720918516507228.post-31416810456070445552011-06-19T00:13:22.789-06:002011-06-19T00:13:22.789-06:00Maybe you shouldn't take it so personally that...Maybe you shouldn't take it so personally that they couldn't /didn't want to come...it might not have had anything to do with how they feel about you...Brittneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12840150141635229941noreply@blogger.com